Setting up to fail
"Go dira gore motho a palelwe" ke polelwana e e tlhalosang boemo jo go se nang ope yo o ka bo fenyang jo bo dirwang ka tsela e e dirang gore motho yo o mo boemong joo a se ka a kgona go dira tiro e a e abetsweng. Go tsewa e le mofuta wa go kgerisa kwa tirong.[1]
Go na gape le maemo a mo go ona mokgatlho kgotsa porojeke e rulaganyeditsweng go palelwa,[2] [3]le mo batho ba ipeetseng go palelwa.[4]
Tiriso ya ntlha e e itsegeng ya "set up to fail" e ne e le ka 1969 kwa United States.[5]
Kwa tirong
[fetola | Fetola Motswedi]Go ipaakanyetsa go palelwa ke mokgwa o o itsegeng wa go kgerisa kwa tirong.[6][7] [8] Mokgwa mongwe ke go imetsa motho ka tiro,[9] fa o ntse o gana gore motho yo o tshwenngwang ke tiro a kgone go e dira le go itshunya nko mo go feteletseng;o mongwe ke go gana go mo naya tshedimosetso e e tlhokegang gore a atlege.[10]
Fa motho a tsenya motho yo mongwe (gantsi yo o leng ka fa tlase ga gagwe) mo maemong a a ngomolang pelo a mo go one go retelesega go batlang go tlhomamisegile, seno e ka nna karolo ya go kgerisa mo e leng gore diphelelo tsa gone di ka dirisiwa go nyatsa le go pega motho yo o kgerisiwang molato. Ka dinako tse dingwe, seno se ka akaretsa gore motho yo o kgerisang ba bangwe a senye sengwe ka tsela e e sa lemotshegeng le go senya boikaelelo bongwe jo a ka tswang a ne a ka kgona go bo fitlhelela. Mofuta ono wa go kgerisa o ka tswa o bakwa ke go bo motho yo o kgerisang a ikutlwa a sa tshwanelege mo mothong yo o kgerisiwang.[11]
Go ka nna le maemo a mo go ona mothapiwa a ka retelelwang ka gonne maikaelelo a a tlhalositsweng a tiro a tsewa a le kotsi mo mokgatlhong; patlisiso ya ka fa gare ke sekai se le sengwe. Ditheo di ka itshireletsa ka go "tsamaya ka ditiro" tsa patlisiso ya boitimokanyi eo mo go yone diphitlhelelo di palelwang ke go bona bosupi bope jwa go dira ka tsela e e sa siamang ke balaodi ba ba amegang mo go tlhomeng patlisiso
Bigotry
[fetola | Fetola Motswedi]Ba bannye ba ba batlang maemo mo setšhabeng gantsi ba tlhongwa go palelwa fa ba lebagane le kgethololo ya semorafe ya semmuso kgotsa kgethololo ya bong - sengwe se se neng se boifisiwa ke batlhankedi ba ntlha ba batsho ba sesole sa lewatle sa US. Ka nako e e tshwanang, batho ba ba tswang mo setlhopheng se segolo ba ka nna ba palelwa fa ba dirisa dithulaganyo tsa kwa tirong tsa go lemoga mebala.
Malwapa
[fetola | Fetola Motswedi]Batsadi ba ka nna le ditsholofelo tse di feteletseng tsa katlego ya thuto ya bana ba bone ka sekai, ka jalo ba ba beela go palelwa ka go solofela gore ba ka ba rarabolola mathata a batsadi ba bone.[12] Se se ka felela ka gore ngwana a nne le bolwetse jwa go ikgobatsa - jo bo bidiwang Divine Child complex.[13]
Kalafi
[fetola | Fetola Motswedi]Kalafi e ka nna ya senngwa ke motho yo o e amogelang kana ke yo o e neelang. Modirisi, ka bobedi a solofela le go boifa kgonagalo ya thuso ya mmatota, a ka nna a baya maemo mo kalafing a a ka nnang a tlhomamisa gore e tla palelwa. [14] Ka fa letlhakoreng le lengwe, mothusi, yo o tlhokang go tshola badirisi ba le mo maemong a go ikaega,a ka tshosediwa ke tebelelo ya katlego/go tswalelwa, mme a koafatsa kalafi ka jalo.[15]
Go itsenya mo kotsing ya go palelwa
[fetola | Fetola Motswedi]Motho yo o ipeelang mokgele wa go palelwa a ka nna a dira jalo ka gonne a tshaba go palelwa, a akanya gore bokgoni jwa gagwe ga bo na mosola, kgotsa ka gonne a sa itse sepe e bile a sa itse sepe ka bokgoni jo a tshwanetseng go nna le jone gore a atlege. Mo mabakeng a mangwe, motho o na le tebelelo e e sa utlwaleng ya gore o tla palelwa, go itshegeletsa ka tsela e e sa siamang,[16] kgotsa go palelwa ke go dira sengwe gongwe a tlhotlhelediwa ke maikutlo a go ikutlwa a le molato,[17]kgotsa ke go patelesega go boeletsa maitsholo a a senyang.[18]
Mo thelebisheneng
[fetola | Fetola Motswedi]Ke leano le le dirisiwang mo thelebisheneng ya nnete, koo maemo a dirwang go tlhagisa dipholo tse di rileng. My Kitchen Rules motshameki Emily Cheung o ne a bolelela mmegadikgang gore "o dumela gore batlhagisi ba ne ba ba beetse go palelwa mo motshamekong wa resetšhurente fa ba ne ba bolelelwa ka nako ya 6 mo bosigong jwa pele ga ba tshwanelwa ke go apaya sejo sa Se-China se ba neng ba sa se tlwaela sa "sesebele se se tshubilweng" mme ba bone maduo a le 2 mo go a le 10". Setlhogo se se tshwanang se tswelela ka go bolela gore, "Mopati wa pele wa Apprentice o ikutlwa a tsieditswe ka tsela e e tshwanang, a re o dumela gore batlhagisi ba ne ba setse ba sweditse gore ba batla go fenya mang fa a ne a tlosiwa".[19]
Metswedi
[fetola | Fetola Motswedi]- ↑ Stambor, Zak."Bullying stems from fear, apathy." APA.com. Originally published in Monitor on Psychology. American Psychological Association. July/August 2006, vol. 37, no. 7. p. 72
- ↑ Quotes - 9/11 Commission member said Commission was set up to fail.Skeptic Project. Accessed September 5, 2015.[1]
- ↑ Fenton, Andrew and Anna Brain. "Insiders say sleep deprivation and setting contestants up to fail are common tricks of the trade". The Daily Telegraph (Australia). September 5, 2015. Accessed September 5, 2015. Originally from news.com.au Archived 2020-06-20 at the Wayback Machine.[2]
- ↑ R. E. Boyatzis/A. McKee, Resonant Leadership (2005) p. 156
- ↑ Economic Opportunity Amendments of 1969: Hearings, Ninety-first Congress, First Session, on H.R. 513
- ↑ Peyton, PR. Dignity at Work: Eliminate Bullying and Create a Positive Working Environment (2003)
- ↑ Rayner C, Hoel H A. "Summary Review of Literature Relating to Workplace Bullying", Journal of Community & Applied Social Psychology, volume 7, issue 3, pages 181–191, June 1997
- ↑ Randle J Workplace Bullying in the NHS (2006)
- ↑ J-F Manzoni/J-L Barsoux, The Set-up-to-fail Syndrome (2007) p. 5 and p. 12
- ↑ Tim Field, Bully in Sight, Success Unlimited (1996) pp. 63–7 ISBN 978-0-9529121-0-1[3]
- ↑ S. White, An Introduction to the Psychodynamics of Workplace Bullying (2013) pp. 31–2
- ↑ Debra Wesselmann, The Whole Parent (2003) p. 104
- ↑ Polly Young-Eisendrath, Women and Desire (London 2000) p. 107 and p. 113
- ↑ P. Casement, Further Learning from the Patient (1990) p. 144
- ↑ Eric Berne, Games People Play (1966) pp. 126–7
- ↑ R. E. Boyatzis/A. McKee, Resonant Leadership (2005) p. 156
- ↑ De Mijolla, Alain. "Failure neurosis". Enotes. Retrieved 8 April 2013.[4]
- ↑ S, Freud, On Metapsychology (PFL 11) pp. 292–3
- ↑ Fenton, Andrew and Anna Brain. "Insiders say sleep deprivation and setting contestants up to fail are common tricks of the trade". The Daily Telegraph (Australia). September 5, 2015. Accessed September 5, 2015. Originally from news.com.au Archived 2020-06-20 at the Wayback Machine.[5]